This page walks you through your first 30 minutes in the Parenting Planner. By the end, you’ll have a solid first draft you can come back to, refine, and eventually export. You don’t need to draft all 11 clauses today. The point is to make confident progress on the highest-leverage parts.Documentation Index
Fetch the complete documentation index at: https://help.rytz.com.au/llms.txt
Use this file to discover all available pages before exploring further.
Before you start: make sure your Master Case File is set up (see Setting up your case file). You’ll need at minimum: your full name, the other party’s full name, and the children’s first names + ages. Filing details (addresses, DOBs, witness info) can come later.
Minute 0–2 — Set the parties + children
Open the Parenting Planner. The first thing you’ll see at the top is the Parties to this plan card. If it shows your full names (“Sarah Williams and James Williams, concerning Lucy (age 6) and Tom (age 8)”), you’re set. If it shows placeholders (“You and Other parent”), click Edit and fill in:- Your first + last name
- The other party’s first + last name
- Each child: first name + current age
Minute 2–7 — Clause 2: Live with / spend time with
This is where most parenting plans get stuck — so we tackle it first while you’re fresh. Click the §2 tab in the navigator (or Up next in the readiness ribbon if it points here). Three structural choices to make:Primary residence
The default of “shared” usually applies. Pick the option that best describes the day-to-day reality (the children live primarily with one parent / on a shared basis).
The week pattern
The calendar lets you assign each day Mon–Sun to User / Other / Shared. If your week is fortnightly (Week A different from Week B), toggle “Alternating weeks” and set both.
The Christmas / January block
The single most-disputed clause in every parenting matter. Common patterns:
- Alternating odd/even — User gets Christmas Eve to 28 December in odd years, Other gets it in even years
- Halved — each parent has the children for one half of the holiday block, alternating each year
Minute 7–12 — Clause 1: Parental responsibility
Click the §1 tab. For most matters where there’s no FV history, the default of joint parental responsibility is the right starting point. This means both parents share decisions on major long-term issues (health, education, religion, name, relocation). Two optional customisations to consider:Carve-outs (the 'mixed' option)
If you’ve agreed that one parent has final say on a specific issue (e.g. religious upbringing if the other parent is non-religious), use the Carve-outs section to record it. Each carve-out has a topic + an allocation (User / Other / joint).
Day-to-day and consultation matters
The editor pre-loads sensible defaults for what counts as “day-to-day” (decided by the parent caring for the children at the time, no consultation) and “non-major matters requiring consultation” (extracurriculars, sleepovers, vaccinations). Add or remove items based on what your matter actually needs.
Minute 12–17 — Clause 4: Changeover
Click the §4 tab. Three things to capture:A specific public location
Tier-1 firms always recommend a public, neutral location — McDonald’s car park, Westfield, school pickup, a children’s contact centre (high-conflict matters). Pick from the chip suggestions or type your own. Avoid either parent’s home.
A specific time + mode
“Friday 5pm school pickup, Sunday 6pm school dropoff” is good. “During the day on Saturday” is bad. Pick from the chip suggestions if a standard pattern matches yours.
Minute 17–22 — Clause 3: Communication
Click the §3 tab. Four fields:Channels
Select all that apply — phone, video call, SMS, email, co-parenting platform (e.g. Our Family Wizard, AppClose). Most plans pick 2–3.
Frequency per week
A concrete number. “At least 3 times per week” is much stronger than “as agreed”. Pick something realistic.
Initiator
Either parent / parent currently with the children / non-resident parent. The middle option is usually the cleanest because it removes ambiguity about who calls who.
Minute 22–27 — Clause 11: Review windows
Skip ahead to §11 — this clause builds on data from your Master Case File and pre-suggests review windows based on the children’s ages. The structured editor offers smart suggestions:- Sophia turns 12 on 15 March 2030 — review primary-to-secondary school transition
- Two-year fixed checkpoint (3 May 2028)
- Either parent proposes relocation > 50 km
Minute 27–30 — Look at the live preview
The right pane has been updating with everything you’ve drafted. Scroll through it. Read it as if you were the partner of a tier-1 family-law firm being asked to sign it off. Look for:- Anything that reads as vague — “reasonable contact”, “as agreed”, “during the day”. Replace with specifics.
- Anything that doesn’t sound like you — the editor produces structured legal phrasing, but if a sentence reads off, change the underlying field and re-save.
- Anything that conflicts — if clause 2 says shared 50/50 but clause 3 says non-resident parent initiates calls, that’s a small contradiction. Clean it up.
What’s next
You’ve covered the highest-leverage 5 clauses (out of 11). The remaining clauses are still important — but each one is simpler:- 5. Special occasions — birthdays, Mother’s/Father’s Day, religious + cultural festivals
- 6. School — enrolment authority, who receives reports, extracurriculars
- 7. Medical — routine vs major, Medicare card, emergency authority
- 8. Travel — domestic notice, overseas consent, passport custody
- 9. Relocation — distance trigger, notice period
- 10. Dispute resolution — FDR provider, escalation ladder
A few don’t-do-this notes
- Don’t try to finish in one sitting. These are decisions about your children’s lives. Sleep on them.
- Don’t paste in text from another template you’ve found online. Most templates online are out of date (pre-2024 amendments) and use US/UK terminology that won’t track in an Australian court.
- Don’t draft the FV safety overlay (clause 12) yourself if there’s serious FV history. Get specialist legal advice. The platform’s structured editor is a starting point, but FV matters are too consequential for self-serve only.
Next
Plan Readiness
The three tiers, what each requires, and how the ribbon works.
Exporting and next steps
PDF, DOCX, Markdown — and what to do with the document once it’s drafted.

